Ignore Your Ex Girlfriend If You Want To Get Her Back
Posted: Wednesday, April 02, 2008
by Harvey Michales
http://www.getyourexbackhome.com
Yes you read correctly, if you want to get her back then ignore your ex girlfriend. I know this sounds like the exact thing that you think will make things worse, but in actuality it is the one thing that will make things so much better. Think about this for a bit, if you have been calling and bugging her trying to get back together then think about how that has worked out. My guess is that it has made her annoyed and irritated and most likely has made her ask you to leave her alone. This is just the very reason why you need to ignore her. One of the reasons why ignoring her will bring her back to you is that it will give her the space that she needs to clear her head and think. She will have some "alone" time to actually get a chance to miss you. If you are always around she will never get a chance to miss you and see that she wants to get back together with you. Let her breath and see that it is truly you that she wants to be with.
Another reason why ignoring her is a good thing is the fact that it gives you a chance to move on with your life. You can start to move forward and do the things you need to do to improve yourself, improve your situation and just improve everything about yourself. Once you have made these positive changes and she starts to see that she will start to see you in a different light.
The last reason why ignoring her is a good thing is the very fact that women hate to be ignored. In the case of getting her back, giving some space is ultimately what is needed, but outright ignoring a girl will have her chasing you faster than a kid after an ice cream truck. If you have dated for any amount of time then you will know that women like to talk and if you are not there to listen they ultimately begin to miss you.
If you want to get her back then ignore her. I hope that you can see why steering clear of your ex is a good idea. Once you give her some room and some time you will start to see things become clearer. Ignore your ex girlfriend if you want to get her back and you will see that things will work out in your favor.
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So me and my ex broke up yesterday. We were going to break up before because she said she thinks she sees me as just a friend. She couldn't do it and said she really loved me and still had feelings. We tried to work things out but yesterday she said that she thinks we can be just friends. We had to make some copies for school which is why I went over in the first place. I said I was going home but she didn't want me to leave. We went and made the copies after we had broken up. We had a great relationship and when we were trying to work things out we hung out and had a lot of fun. She said she still has feelings for me but doesn't think they're strong enough. I don't understand because we hung out on Sunday and she was all over me and said we don't kiss as much but shes glad because it feels like we're dating once again. She kept holding me and kissing me and she said she did feel something between us. The next day she hung out with her friends and well when I saw her again she said she wants to be friends. I don't understand she still has feelings for me but says it's not fair to me since at times she feels that she sees me as just a friend. Should I give her space and try talking to her again later on or forget about her? I don't want to forget about her, we don't hate each other and she said when I'm ready to talk we can start being friends.Sounds to me like she's trying to have her cake and eat it in this situation. She gets the emotional support, love and affection from you, without having to commit to anything. In other words by always being there for her, and always willing to spend time with her, you're only feeding her ego more and more. How can she truly value the time and support you give her if she can have it whenever she wants it, always on her schedule, and always by her rules? And what's to stop her when she suddenly meets someone else she feels even more for? At that point you will be left behind, as she focusses her attention on him instead. And the only reason she may not have a complete desire to be with you relationship wise could be because of your availability. We value that which is rare. Like diamonds. And if we all look deep down we realise that none of us want to be with anyone who's soul purpose in life, it would seem, is to make others happy, forgoing their own happiness. You need your own hobbies, friends, places to go, and people to see. If you put all your eggs in one basket then you can end up with nothing once all this has ended and blown over. Concentrate on you, and you alone for a while. And don't let her manipulate you. Be strong and confident about the choices you make in life, as it's only you who you need to answer to in all this. By all means be friends, but only if you can live with the idea that it may never be anymore than that with this girl. If you need time to get past it then simply ask her not to be contact for a while while the cobwebs are blown away. But don't make out you're hurting. Be brave, confident and stick by your decisions. After all, it's a big world out there, and if we dwell on the decisions we make instead of learning from them and moving on, then we run the risk of imprisoning ourselves and becoming insular. Go out, have fun, and see all the wonderful things life has to offer! We only get one life, and hanging around on the word of a person who doesn't reciprocate our feelings only makes us more confused and upset than we were before. Ignore the ideas of playing mind games, as that only makes things worse. Instead, do what it right for YOU. Become a confident guy who's assured and knows what he wants, and watch how it affects those around you. I wish you all the luck, and I hope I was able to help you somewhat.
Wanna help... I loved a girl for about 2years and we broke up only because of my mistake. After that i couldn't forgive myself, I become got addicted to drugs and drinks. At that time another girl brought me back to my life. now she loves me alot. Now my 1st gf came back to me by telling that she can't live without me. I can't hurt both of them. Whom should i choose from this, the girl who loves me like her life or the girl who brought me back to my life. I don't know what to do.
Just to clarify, the "love game" is insane and retarded. To think things could go so much more smoothly and we could be so much more happier if we just...didn't act like psychopaths in relationships and make insanely irrational decisions. Two best friends in a mutually beneficial relationship, that's the only thing required. No drama, no pain, no "investing emotions", just common sense and the urge to want a faithful partner, which is what we all ultimately want regardless of how "complex" we figure our desires to be.I absolutely agree with you. It's great to have found someone who agrees with me. My ex made a right song and dance about emotions and how "relationships are really really hard work", and it got me thinking... I don't think they're that hard actually. I think they're as hard as you make them. It's just about being there for each other. And to me that's it. You provide support for each other and live into the future. No drama, no suspense, no hissy fits, no manipulation. Just two people who love each other enough to forget all the petty rubbish that so often surfaces at the most random of times.
I am going through a situation where my girlfriend and i had been dating for 3 years throughout high school. She decided she needed a break and wanted to have some space before she leaves for college, to help her decide what she wants to do with her life, and concerning this article what she wants to do about me. I love her very much and want to be with her when she leaves for college and she does know this but right now it seems as though she doesnt care what happens to us in the future and is only concerned with her own life. I am respectful of her space and her need of a break right now but how can i keep myself from constantly thinking of her and feeling the need to let her know how much i love her?
my gf broke up with me 2 days ago weve been dating for 6 months. said she felt smothered and was losing her friends and that caused her to lose the feelings she had for me as she says. what makes matters wrose is her single friend whos always hated me got kicked out of her house and now lives with her, should i jus give her space and leave her alone for a while
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My girlfriend is in the navy. She left about 2 months ago and she's just ignoring me right now. Last weekend she was normal but now she's totally different. She didn't say I love you all during the week so I said she was acting weird. That was 3 days ago and she hasn't talked to me since then. Yesterday I sent her a long message saying I was sorry but she still hasn't responded. I know she's busy during the week but not too busy to say I love you. She definitely has time to talk cause she parties on the weekends. I'm just going crazy and I think were about to break up. Also we were talking about marriage up to last weekend and I have an engagement ring. Please just give me advice.
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ive been with my girlfriend for almost a yr and were both inlove with eachother and were off and on off and on but whatever people tell her about me like they say im cheatin on her or whaever she believes and i dont know why. she breaks up with me without even coming to me first. then today she broke up with me because she said she didnt want to get hurt but i havent even did anything. she said she wouldnt leave me and im just wondering what the hell happen all of a sudden. she said she would still be there for me an still wanted to be friends but i cant just be her friend so i told her to delete my number
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